I’ll get right to it
BF and I have been together for almost a year now and our relationship has been great so far. He’s my dream guy and I honestly couldn’t ask for someone better. I always felt that we were both honest and trusted each other. At no point in our relationship did I sense that he was being unfaithful or doing something he shouldn’t.
Last week he came over to have dinner with my family. My parents know him well and adore him, however it was the first time he met my sister (or so I thought). For the record, I don’t have a great relationship with her at all. She’s manipulative, aggressive and batshit crazy to put it mildly. The only time she contacts me is when she either needs 1)money or 3) my help to get her out of trouble once again. I don’t have a clue what’s going on in her life most of the time and prefer it that way.
Anyway, after dinner BF and I were in one of the guest bedrooms when my sister walked in (she arrived late as usual). As soon as he noticed her his whole demeanour changed. He looked surprised but then very annoyed. It was obvious he was trying to act indifferent but it wasn’t working at all because he absolutely lost focus of what he was doing. My sister’s reaction was also weird, she immediately said “oh hey” in this fake innocent voice and started giggling. She had this huge fucking grin on her face and asked me where I “found” him. They awkwardly exchanged greetings and then she left the kitchen again.
Of course I asked him wtf just happened, like do you know her or something?? He vaguely said that she seems “familiar” and kept beating around the bush. I asked if they had sex and he immediately assured me that they “they definitely did NOT” hook up and that I shouldn’t worry.
Later that evening I asked her in private if they met before and did something I should know about. She wasn’t being serious at all and kept telling me not to worry and all that BS. However she swore they never hooked up and I actually believed her for once, if they did have sex she’d definitely rub it in my face. I asked her if she owes him money or something and she said no.
Side note: As we were about to leave later in the evening BF said that he forgot his wallet and needed to go back inside. At the time I didn’t realize but now I’m almost sure he went to talk to her, for whatever reason.
It’s really frustrating being in this situation and I can’t stop thinking about it. I’ve brought it up several times and he just keeps changing the topic or telling me that “nothing happened”. Doesn’t that sound crazy suspicious? I don’t want this to affect our relationship but I feel like I don’t even know him anymore. I’m tired of begging for explanation at this point. Should I have a serious discussion with him or just give up & move on?
TL;DR My boyfriend and my sister have met in the past, neither of them will tell me what happened. I’m quickly losing trust in my bf and find it unfair that he’s being so secretive. Should I give him a chance to confess everything or just move on?
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