Monday, March 11, 2019

I (20M) slept with one my senior managers (42F). She is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She asked for my permission.

I just so happened to sleep with one of my senior managers (Claire) after a company night out a while back. I had never known her beforehand. I'm just a temporary employee at my company and she a senior manager. We work in completely different areas. She called me out of the blue using the work email. I seriously thought I made a major fuck up as my direct manager had no clue what it was about.

I remembered her from the other night so I was incredibly anxious. She closed the door and immediately started crying. She is a very beautiful women. I seriously thought she was in her late twenties. She explained that she was pregnant and she wanted my permission to keep the child. She has failed to get pregnant with her previous partners and 5 IVF rounds had failed to produce any results. I know it's her body and she can do whatever she wants. However, she has asked for my permission and it makes me really really anxious. She asked me to think about it but I don't have anyone to talk to about it.

I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to deny her the best chance at becoming a mother but i'm also a bit apprehensive at being a father. I'm not a sperm donor so I have a responsibility for the child legally speaking.

Edit: Had sex with her 4 weeks ago. She told me she hadn't been with anyone else in before or after me.

Edit: How do I tell mom? lol

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