PLEASE READ UPDATES. I’m trying my best to get through all the replies thanks for everyone who is trying their best to help me I really appreciate it.
I don’t really know how to start this but I’m so confused and hurt right now.
Backstory: I’ve known M for 5 years and we’ve been friends for the first 2 years and then she told me she liked me in a another way and we got closer and got together. She’s always been so sweet and loving and we’ve only ever had a few small fights but who doesn’t right?
For the record the last week or so nothing has been off at all, I haven’t noticed any behaviour changes or anything to suggest somethings not right.
So last night I took her out on a date (we do this about once a week if we can, both of us work full time so it’s always a dinner date) and I took her to this nice Italian place we like to go to and all was going well. We got drinks, ordered food, conversation was going well she was happy. she looks at her phone for about a minute once our conversation dies down a bit and I’m fine with that, (I’ve never minded her checking her phone for a minute or two if we’re not talking as long as she’s not on it the whole time of course). I never go on my phone when we’re on a date so I was just observing my surroundings and looking at her and she suddenly started to look a-bit anxious. She doesn’t make eye contact with me and says she has to go to the toilet. I say ok that’s fine, didn’t really think much of it. 5 minutes later the waiter comes over and she says that my date left and hands me a note she was told to give me from her, it says “I’m really sorry I can’t do this.” I was suddenly really worried that something was wrong so I asked for the bill before the food even arrived and left. I texted her as soon as I got out but no reply, so I tried to message her on Facebook but she has me blocked???? What the fuck did I do? I went back to my apartment where we both stay and she wasn’t there and I don’t know where else she could have gone so I sent her another text saying I was really worried and I need to know she’s ok. No reply. Ended up falling asleep about 2am and wake up today to nothing still. It’s like she just ghosted me, her stuffs still in the apartment but there’s no sign of her so I don’t know what to do. What can I do? I’m hopeless right now and I feel broken and I’m so worried about her. Any advice would be great.
Edit: Found her bank card, passport and purse at the apartment. No sign of anything planned by her.
Update: Have contacted the school where she works, she hasn’t gone in and they haven’t received any notification from her saying she wouldn’t come in. Messaged her mother explaining the situation and still no response. Texted her best friend and she hasn’t heard from her either, I asked her to try to get in contact with her. At this point I just want to know she’s ok.
Update: Calling the police now
Update: Police said they are going to be investigating it but also told me that she will probably be found in 24-48 hours (god I hope).
Update: Her mum called me back and has heard nothing from her, she’s very angry at me for not telling her sooner(she said specifically the night she left) and then hung up. Doesn’t seem to understand that I’m also extremely worried. She sees it as me doing something but I don’t know what I could’ve done. What else can I do, all these replies of different possibilities are making me feel so worried I feel physically sick.
Note: I've been constantly replying as much as i can for the last 4 hours but there are too many comments right now and i need a rest. I will be back after a short rest. Updating everyone in a few hours. Please DM me if you have really important info or advice as its hard to filter though all these comments, thanks again everyone for your support.
UPDATE: I'm so fucking relieved right now, u/drlitt DM'd me with the idea to ask her friend to check when she was last online on facebook, i forgot that was even a thing since she had me blocked and i thought facebook would be a dead end. She checked and it said she was last online 1 hour ago. I'm feeling so relieved to know that this must mean that shes alright or at least in contact with someone. Shes told me shes messaged her and now were waiting for a reply. Thanks for the support everyone its incredibly hard to look through nevermind reply to the 2500 comments already on the post so thanks so much for hanging in there. Please remember to DM me especially if you have an idea of what else i can do as tbh i don't really know what to do from here and its really hard to find useful info in the replies with the amount of people spamming "fake" and "abuse" in the already ridiculous sized comment section. Thanks again everyone ill try my best to keep you all updated.
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