I’m in my late 20s and I got engaged for my fiancé (29) who I’ve been with for 9 years. Our relationship has never really been tested and we get on really well. But recently he brought up that he wants kids. I said no I’m not ready and probably won’t be for a few years. He got really mad and argued with me for a solid 10 minutes. I just moved on from it and didn’t give it a second thought.
A week later I couldn’t find my birth control pills, they are usually in the bathroom cupboard but I couldn’t find them anywhere. Later that night he wanted to have sex, I said I couldn’t find my bc pills and he said it’s alright he’ll use a condom, I supposed that was alright so he went and got one from the bathroom. For the next few weeks we just used a condom and I didn’t take the pill. In hindsight I should have got more when I couldn’t find the original pack but I couldn’t be bothered (my fault)
On a few occasions we were having sex I noticed the condom was split, he clearly noticed all times and didn’t say anything so I said stop. The next day I was putting the recycling in the trash, as I was putting it in I seen my pills at the bottom. I instantly knew he had binned them. He knows I deal with the trash so why we he be so stupid to just put them in recycling.
It all made sense so I confronted him about the pills and condoms and he couldn’t answer me. He just kept walking away. I was so mad at him, it’s not right. You can’t just force someone to be pregnant just because you want a baby. Does he have to carry it for 9 months?
I haven’t been talking to him, I’m so annoyed.
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